This morning I had planned a much different post but in light of some local news I have decided to change my focus today.
I apologize for the serious sad nature of this post with some many still celebrating racing success from this past weekend however, I awoke this morning to news that a family friend a 21 year old girl had taken her life.
This young lady had been very close with my oldest son. She was a bright cheery beautiful faith filled young woman when they spent time together. Since my son returned home from the Army they had talked and spent time together again. I was glad to see that they were able to continue their friendship after leaving high school and all it's pettiness behind them. My son didn't say that there was anything out of the ordinary going on with her or that she had shared anything troubling.
As I go about my day today as I am forced to do, I keep thinking about the things my own children tell me without saying anything...and the times I may not listen closely enough.
Please remember that your children only know life to the depth and length they've lived it. When they say things are so important to them don't dismiss it as childish or unimportant. To them, to their experience whatever they are feeling is the greatest strongest thing they have ever known.
Often I'm sure there are no signs of trouble, no tell-tale change in behavior to miss but sometimes there is nothing to say just time to be shared listening when other seemingly important matters need to wait. I would never have thought this would happen to this young lady and that reminds me that I have a house full of children that I can't imagine it would happen to either.
Starting today I will be saying a lot less and listening a lot more.
If you are inclined please pray for this Bedford family as they attempt to deal with this tragedy.
EDITED to add: Another local fatality. The husband of a high school classmate and friend was killed when he lost control of his Cannondale bike and was struck by a vehicle. The driver and passenger of the vehicle were not injured.
Living in a rural close knit area this news hits especially hard. Your prayers and thoughts are appreciated.
EDITED to add: Another local fatality. The husband of a high school classmate and friend was killed when he lost control of his Cannondale bike and was struck by a vehicle. The driver and passenger of the vehicle were not injured.
Living in a rural close knit area this news hits especially hard. Your prayers and thoughts are appreciated.
